Go to the next level
Letter to myself and anyone else who wants to go to the Next Level!
How to make success simpler:
1. CHOICES
Make your choices from your “happy place”. Don’t do your shoulds, do “what if I coulds” instead!
2. STRUCTURES
Have structures in place for AM and PM personal routines
[self care and time, YOU first]. I remember getting up at 4 AM just to journal and be with me before my son got up.
Personal clarity is everything. Wellness starts there. Working out, eating well, sleeping well, loving well. All important.
3. SUPPORT
Support – have people in your life that actually want you to win. These are NOT the people that NEED you for them to WIN or NEED you to constrict your freedom and self expression. These are people who ASK more of you and hold you to your word.
4. JUST DO IT
Habits – get some around your core values. If you want a “hot bod” eat less carbs, sleep and work out.
5. YOUR WORD IS ALL YOU GOT
Accountability – have accountibility teams, buddies, friends. People who want you to GET to that gym, put down that beer, get to the mountains, read a book, start a gratefulness journal.
6. LOVE MORE REGARDLESS OF YOUR OPINIONS
Love what is so now. One day at a time on changes but take the steps that take you UP not DOWN.
Now, why is this so hard?
Talking instead of listening.
Running away from feelings and escaping.
Judging yourself, therefore everything and everyone else.
Victim mentality. [“I can’t, it’s too hard, I am powerless”]
Talking about it and talking about it gets exhausting.
Results: Not doing about it because you are still talking about it.
It takes up way to much time to make all the excuses and blame others for the perceived “lack” you you have in your life. So “shut er up” and get to work on you. Leadership is sometimes about becoming someone others want to follow. Leadership is always about being who you WOULD follow.
Happy Monday after Thanksgiving 2018
Love your Life, Live your Legacy!
Heather Steele
